Care
A family coordinating care for someone they love — without putting every private conversation in the same place.
Status
On the web
LiveEarly, but you can use it at care.tendiem.app
iPhone
Coming laterNo iPhone app yet. It works in the phone’s browser.
The app
Shifts, notes, and the questions the whole care team needs. Family, aides, and the person being cared for each see only what they’re meant to see.
Care is its own product. It isn’t “Marriage, but for family.” Often you’re writing about a parent or partner, not about yourself. That changes the trust, so we built a different app.
You name who you’re caring for. Family see the day-to-day picture. Aides can keep shift notes the family never opens. The person being cared for, when they can, sees the shared log. You can invite family, an aide, the person themselves, or a second phone of your own.
Why it isn't like the others
What makes it different
You’re writing about someone else
In Marriage, you write about yourself. In Care, you write about a parent or partner who may not be able to say yes the same way. That’s why this is its own app, not another tab.
Aide notes the family can’t open
Some shift notes should stay with the aide. The family can’t open them — not even if they look around in the app.
What the team needs — and what they don’t
Shared observations for everyone on the care team. A private half that never leaves the writer’s phone.
One more thing
A few more details
- Not in this version yet: an iPhone app, alerts, a meds and appointments list, and Care’s own pricing.
- Care may cost something different from Marriage and Pals. That isn’t decided yet.
Also in Tendiem
The other apps
Marriage
A quiet daily space for two people — with a private journal that stays private unless you choose to share it.
Pals
The same idea as Marriage, for a different pair — two friends keeping each other honest. No coach, no mentor.
tendiem.com
The public website — what Tendiem is, what it costs, and a plain-language promise about privacy.
